I believe that communication goes a long way in this world. Words has so may meaning by the ways its being presented.
I have a friend who was in this relationship for a while.She assumed the communication was great but her partner knew it was a ticking bomb waiting to happen. All those years of assuming damaged her communication skills today but she is doing much better. She has become a much better effective communicator by listening, trying to understand, trying to reason and console her partner when he needed her instead of being his mother she became his best friend.
They do not argue much anymore or say hurtful words. They both had to change the presentation of their words so they wouldn't come off as hurtful or intentional. I can learn from my friend by being more patient to my associates and to be more understanding.
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